"Blocking" in the fiber arts world, is usually a finishing step. After your garment (or each piece) is knitted or crocheted, block to match the measurements given in your schematics, or you can seam them together and block them as a completed garment.
The first step I take in this process is looking at the yarn band. I make sure I understand the care instructions for the yarn I'm about to block. Then, I look at the pattern for any specific blocking instructions (lacy shawls often have areas that are accented in blocking). If you're worried about your yarn and want to avoid washing the garment, you can spray/mist it with water and proceed with blocking.
The blanket shown above was made by a friend of mine, and she used a washable yarn. So, I went ahead and soaked before blocking. Usually it's a 20 minute soak (often longer because I forget about it). This lets the fibers relax into its new form. Then, I squeeze out the excess water. If I'm using strong yarn that can tolerate it, I'd place the gently wrung-out project in a lingerie bag and set it to the lowest spin cycle on my machine with a towel or other things that need wringing out. If the particular yarn is too fragile for the spin cycle, I use a fluffy towel and lay the piece as flat as possible on the towel, and roll it up. This makes a towel-garment sandwich "burrito". I then squish the towel to remove even more excess moisture. Once you've removed as much water as you can, bring out your blocking surface.
A friend and I went "halfers" on some kid's foam puzzle mat like this, so that's what I use. Basically you need a stable surface that can take and hold pins in place. Some folks use a mattress, others just towels. I place a dry towel on the foam squares and place the item atop the towel.
Next, I assess the best plan of action. Should I use the stiff wires? Just T-pins? Flexible wires? A combo? The blanket project above was an easy choice - stiff wires for sharp crisp edges...
|curved edges = flexible blocking wires
|before blocking the "Percy Shawl"
|after blocking the "Percy Shawl"
I hope this tutorial gives you a general idea of the many options you have for blocking your hand-made goods. These techniques can also be used for pre-manufactured wooly goods, too!
There are tons more resources out there and here are a few to help you out whichever way you choose to block your project...
blocking lace on KnittingDaily
using blocking wires from Knit Picks
using flexible blocking wires on Knitter's Review
blocking with pins on the purlbee
making your own wires: DIY blocking wires
blocking without wires on CrochetMe